对不起各位。不是我不要把照片登出来，而是你可要明白。昨天我本来是决定要早回去把所有零零碎碎的照片登上我漂漂亮亮部落格，可是，老马害了我，把我捉出门去了。
所以呢， 不要怪我了！！ 今晚！！ 我尽量。
黄大（莉雁）小姐崔了我很多次。
木曜日, 7月 31, 2008
木曜日, 7月 24, 2008
yellow ribbon
are you willing to give them another chance?
sms or email me. i planning to order the yellow ribbon in bulk.
each ribbon is $2. let give them our small contribution to tell them that
不会走头无路的，一定会有你应该走的路。
give them another chance. make our quality of life better.
sms or email me. i planning to order the yellow ribbon in bulk.
each ribbon is $2. let give them our small contribution to tell them that
不会走头无路的，一定会有你应该走的路。
give them another chance. make our quality of life better.
火曜日, 7月 22, 2008
brand + money = lifestyle
recently i realise that i'm not doing justice to my makeup box. everything inside is messed up and i'm not using everyting. my shiseido is well-used, but my red earth is chuck to a corner of the box. most people should have the same problem, but i'm taking about a different kind of problem, brand disorder. i use my new channel palette or my anna sui lipstick, but not my can-make eye shadow.
my recent trip to genting bring me to see someone who make me realise something is wrong. she is similiar to me, but w/o disorder. maybe is becoz our birth date is one day difference. Yes, is my godma.
something i wanna learn from her, and something not.
let's talk about the wants, or let me talk about her later and you know why.
i lust for coach bag, kate spade organiser, guerlain blusher, nine west shoes, burberry shawl dior palette, cartier watch and Hermes tea cup. be it the way i desire, i'm afraid of imitations. Yes, becoz of face. and something is wrong.
i used to have cheap things like a $2 pendant or a $10 skirt. then i started to change. From a $2 pendant, i started wearing pendant from lee hwa, sk or swarovski. nowadays i stop buying bags and bags. apart from the promise with my mum(no buys in 6 months starting from march), i realise that bags below $100 are hardly my taste. this is a disorder. in the genting trip, i keep looking carlo rino's luggage, while thinking to buy the handbag. it is cheaper than a coach, but you can buy 10 perlini bag with the design that i wanted.
but then disorder was cured. it was a thinking that cure it, i realised. coz most of the things i knew from before. my godma, who owe a gucci limited edition bag where only hollywood actress take actually have imitation goods like puma shoes. that gucci bag could probably get us 10 other gucci bags. she gave me a channel palette recently, but she has cheap blusher like < 10 SGD. this eventually made me understand one thing. money != sense (for non-programmer, exclamation mark means "not")
she has good taste i would say. and she would tell me rather save to buy a rolex than a coach bag. hey excuse me, rolex is so expensive!! but it has value, better value than a coach bag. i mean.. value such that it will not drop, but may rise, and a coach bag, is like a car. it will drop, definitely will.
so ended up i wonder what i wanted? brand or sense? money or face? in genting, i bought some cosmetic which is i thought i will nv buy. since the day i say bye to red earth and hello to shiseido, i know my lifestyle has change. i thought it is to change to luxury, but i realise it is wrong. i think it was suppose to change to be better taste and sense, and not spending more money for tasteless things. look at the auntie in their LV clothes, you really think they are mo-e/chio?
i realised that when i lust for that coach bag design, it was becoz it is nice. not becoz it is branded. i realise the mistake was not from the beginning but was when i realise the few design i like was branded, i thought i like branded goods. just like the can-make eye shadow that i really like when i bought it becoz it is really nice on me, why am i not doing it justice by kicking it to the corner of my make-up box?
i started having problem with my tickets to paul & joe private party, lee hwa fashion show and the upcoming dior launch of new products. thanks to my "waking-up" i threw away the dior ticket instead of throwing away my date with city-ppl to celebrate my birthday. though sad(to throw away), but i know that those products are not my cup of tea. i only like dior palette and their watch, and it becoz of design.
though said, but i still decided to discard some of my baleno, bossini clothing from my wardrobe. not becoz of brand, but the design is so wrong on me. even OP is wrong.
though said, but i will still not give up my dorothy perkins august buy and even set a few hundred budget for it becoz i have 20% discount for 1st buy in the birthday month.
though said, but i still buy expensive shoes becoz it is really the comfort that i buy for and not becoz of the price. no more vnc for me, it is so painful. URS is good, but i really love shoes in the takashimaya/robinsons.
though said, but i will still consider my carlo rino's while waiting to have enough money for my coach bag.
though said, but i will still lust for what i lust for, and save to get what i lust.
i realise that lifestyle = money in pocket + some brand + good taste
and not = no money + branded + branded taste only.
P.S. I HIT cheap JACKPOT in genting
my recent trip to genting bring me to see someone who make me realise something is wrong. she is similiar to me, but w/o disorder. maybe is becoz our birth date is one day difference. Yes, is my godma.
something i wanna learn from her, and something not.
let's talk about the wants, or let me talk about her later and you know why.
i lust for coach bag, kate spade organiser, guerlain blusher, nine west shoes, burberry shawl dior palette, cartier watch and Hermes tea cup. be it the way i desire, i'm afraid of imitations. Yes, becoz of face. and something is wrong.
i used to have cheap things like a $2 pendant or a $10 skirt. then i started to change. From a $2 pendant, i started wearing pendant from lee hwa, sk or swarovski. nowadays i stop buying bags and bags. apart from the promise with my mum(no buys in 6 months starting from march), i realise that bags below $100 are hardly my taste. this is a disorder. in the genting trip, i keep looking carlo rino's luggage, while thinking to buy the handbag. it is cheaper than a coach, but you can buy 10 perlini bag with the design that i wanted.
but then disorder was cured. it was a thinking that cure it, i realised. coz most of the things i knew from before. my godma, who owe a gucci limited edition bag where only hollywood actress take actually have imitation goods like puma shoes. that gucci bag could probably get us 10 other gucci bags. she gave me a channel palette recently, but she has cheap blusher like < 10 SGD. this eventually made me understand one thing. money != sense (for non-programmer, exclamation mark means "not")
she has good taste i would say. and she would tell me rather save to buy a rolex than a coach bag. hey excuse me, rolex is so expensive!! but it has value, better value than a coach bag. i mean.. value such that it will not drop, but may rise, and a coach bag, is like a car. it will drop, definitely will.
so ended up i wonder what i wanted? brand or sense? money or face? in genting, i bought some cosmetic which is i thought i will nv buy. since the day i say bye to red earth and hello to shiseido, i know my lifestyle has change. i thought it is to change to luxury, but i realise it is wrong. i think it was suppose to change to be better taste and sense, and not spending more money for tasteless things. look at the auntie in their LV clothes, you really think they are mo-e/chio?
i realised that when i lust for that coach bag design, it was becoz it is nice. not becoz it is branded. i realise the mistake was not from the beginning but was when i realise the few design i like was branded, i thought i like branded goods. just like the can-make eye shadow that i really like when i bought it becoz it is really nice on me, why am i not doing it justice by kicking it to the corner of my make-up box?
i started having problem with my tickets to paul & joe private party, lee hwa fashion show and the upcoming dior launch of new products. thanks to my "waking-up" i threw away the dior ticket instead of throwing away my date with city-ppl to celebrate my birthday. though sad(to throw away), but i know that those products are not my cup of tea. i only like dior palette and their watch, and it becoz of design.
though said, but i still decided to discard some of my baleno, bossini clothing from my wardrobe. not becoz of brand, but the design is so wrong on me. even OP is wrong.
though said, but i will still not give up my dorothy perkins august buy and even set a few hundred budget for it becoz i have 20% discount for 1st buy in the birthday month.
though said, but i still buy expensive shoes becoz it is really the comfort that i buy for and not becoz of the price. no more vnc for me, it is so painful. URS is good, but i really love shoes in the takashimaya/robinsons.
though said, but i will still consider my carlo rino's while waiting to have enough money for my coach bag.
though said, but i will still lust for what i lust for, and save to get what i lust.
i realise that lifestyle = money in pocket + some brand + good taste
and not = no money + branded + branded taste only.
P.S. I HIT cheap JACKPOT in genting
水曜日, 7月 16, 2008
Congratulations to myself!!
Finally finish the convocation and the 1st moment when i came down from the stage and went back to my seat i was thinking that
台下十年功，台上一分钟。
其实，也没有一分钟。但是却多过十年功。
i was super nervous the day before. can't sleep at all, and the next day i woke by before 7am, much earlier than i would on a working day.
then i started to watch jdorama until my mum came back..
anyway, i'll update the photos later, either tonight or when i come back from my short trip.
Really wanna thank liyan. She is my everything yesterday. Driver + Nanny + Photographer + Manager. I really thank her for the selfless help in my happy day.
Dinner was great.. of course, look at the price $700+++++++++++++
Thank da jie, da ge, er ge, godma for coming.
And mummy... for every other thing that others couldn't provide.
台下十年功，台上一分钟。
其实，也没有一分钟。但是却多过十年功。
i was super nervous the day before. can't sleep at all, and the next day i woke by before 7am, much earlier than i would on a working day.
then i started to watch jdorama until my mum came back..
anyway, i'll update the photos later, either tonight or when i come back from my short trip.
Really wanna thank liyan. She is my everything yesterday. Driver + Nanny + Photographer + Manager. I really thank her for the selfless help in my happy day.
Dinner was great.. of course, look at the price $700+++++++++++++
Thank da jie, da ge, er ge, godma for coming.
And mummy... for every other thing that others couldn't provide.
月曜日, 7月 14, 2008
水曜日, 7月 09, 2008
katakana + korean
it is so fun to know katakana.
becoz of ikoma lesson, my katakana started to pick up..
as a result, when mayu, shuhan and me go cash studio, we manage to sing korean songs.
becoz of katakana "subtitles"
haha..
月曜日, 7月 07, 2008
bff - Patrick
no no.. not baby thia... is PATRICK CHUA BING LUN!!
this horrible guy.. how long have i not seen him???
but i was actually the one who 放他飞机 on the day that we suppose to meet.. sorry sorry.. coz must understand that i only have that evening to go and get my lovely camera from the PC show.... blah blah blah.. oops...
why BFF
can you believe that someone is so self-less? yes, self-less.. everything he do is for everyone else but rarely himself..
he is one who i can make alot of nuisance to him, bash him up, slap him, and we still declare each other friends forever.
when i'm unreasonable to him, it would be 10 or 100 times worse than i can be to anyone else. let's say watch movie, an example
P: watch movie?
J: i want watch the XXX (some show he not interested), coz no one wanna watch with me
P: OK. watch where?
J: erm.. dunno.. i lazy leh.. watch at J8 ba.
P: OK. what time slot?
J: abt noon ba.. you go book tickets before i come (obviously i stay nearer)
P: hao ba.. hao ba..
J: and buy popcorn, coke, nacho chips before hand
P: popcorn sweet de hao ma? (he eat sweet de)
J: NO.
P: half half? (half sweet, half salty)
J: NO.
P: one-third sweet, two-third salty?
J: no salty popcorn, no watch.
P: have wat.. and more lor..
J: if i eat one sweet popcorn, i'll kill you..
P: ...
J: how?
P: ok lor. salty popcorn, coke, nacho chips lor...
J: more cheese arh.. the nacho chips...
P: ok..
J: we share share the nacho chips but the cheese is all mine..
P: ok lor.....
i always win!! haha!! or i should say he always let me win.. and it feels really happy to have someone treat you like a princess and he always does so, even thorough i was far-to-become his girlfriend.
he always nv fail to introduce his friends to me.. what does this means to me? he is never ashamed of being with me as a friend. it really make me happy becoz at the time i know him was the last time i ever had no confidence in myself.
he treat my friends with respect. i still remember once he came to look for me when i was studying at tp with ... i think is doreen. then the three of us went together for dinner and while waiting for food, he make small talk with my friend. (obviously he wasn't hitting on her, so dun be silly) to me, a friend who respect your friend is really a good friend.
on my 21st birthday, he came to help me, slog like some animal to help me. from preparing food, bbq pit till the final cooking, he is really my best helper the whole night (i would say). came and stay overnight with us the day before worrying that the gers are alone. even i was so rude to him when he came and told him so late might as well dun come, he still stay and help me and nv grumble about it and nv even mention to me how much he help in my so and so event.
one very impt thing that i need to mention him. In one event when ppl accused me of doing something i din, and the ppl ask him why he so "protective" of me, he say he believe that i din do that coz he knows i will not (T_T)....
he will always help me when i need him no matter big or small problem. i was in school and forgot my thumb drive, he was at home coz that time we were different class... and for those who know his house is nearer to school than mine. i called him and he was sleeping
J: ne~ wake up. i need help.
P: ??
J: i forgot my thumb-drive, go my house and get for me leh
P: orh.. OK
J: don't sleep liao la.. my mum will not know what is thumb drive so you go in my room, the thumb drive is plug to my laptop.
P: ok..
J: quick la.. then faster pass to me ASAP... erm.. 12NOON!!
P: orh..
in the above case, his lesson start about 3pm i think and it was 10:30am when i called him.. POOR THING~~ m(T_T)m
me and HIM
1. he is the one of the two guys friends who always know when i'm having PMS w/o fail.
2. my mum's favorite guy friend of mine.
3. we learn para para together from chongkai and became some center-of-attraction in Plaza Singapura.
4. he never fail to give me discount when i go to his baito shop and even his colleagues and friends recognise me and give me the same type of discount.
5. i always like to nag at him, and he will listen and explain. but when he nag at me, i will nag harder at him..
6. poly some ppl say he is like my slave but i nv think in this way. (even my mum scold me say i treat him like slave)
7. he is the one guy friend i have who shops with me and even help me to choose clothes that will compliment and flatter me becoz there is this new cute guy in school.. (haha)
8. he is the best customer service officer i ever met in my life.
9. he is the most filial and homely guy i ever know in my life.
10. once, i cried on his shoulder till his whole sleeve is wet.. i had a good laugh after that
words to him
i know you know what you want, but you are just too indecisive in your life. if found the girl, just snatch. don't care what ppl say, coz happiness is yours. go study like what you wanted. since IT is not yours, i will take away your share for you. go into business. that's what you want and what you will really excel.
friends for 6 years, from the time we ran after the last train(not our last train, but ck's) till now we haven seen each other since the last time i reported to you about a new bf and you gave me the omiyage from taiwan. gotta meet up soon before one day you forgotten about me and carry on with your life.
i thank you for being my (slave) friend. and that you never fail to trust me even when the world turn its back ard me. this is what i understand from you. even when everyone(e gers) said that i wasn't suppose to be believed, you stood by my side. i really appreciated.
thanks for being "liyan" in my poly life. but it turn out that you are not "liyan" but amazing another impt character in my life. someone who listens to who i like or dislike, love or hate. never told another person abt my secret, and even try to help create chances for me to be with the guy i like.. how can i ever find another guy friend like you again?
thanks mr lun-zi.. dunno if you get to read this post, but what is impt is my appreciation for you, and your endless friendship for me.
this horrible guy.. how long have i not seen him???
but i was actually the one who 放他飞机 on the day that we suppose to meet.. sorry sorry.. coz must understand that i only have that evening to go and get my lovely camera from the PC show.... blah blah blah.. oops...
why BFF
can you believe that someone is so self-less? yes, self-less.. everything he do is for everyone else but rarely himself..
he is one who i can make alot of nuisance to him, bash him up, slap him, and we still declare each other friends forever.
when i'm unreasonable to him, it would be 10 or 100 times worse than i can be to anyone else. let's say watch movie, an example
P: watch movie?
J: i want watch the XXX (some show he not interested), coz no one wanna watch with me
P: OK. watch where?
J: erm.. dunno.. i lazy leh.. watch at J8 ba.
P: OK. what time slot?
J: abt noon ba.. you go book tickets before i come (obviously i stay nearer)
P: hao ba.. hao ba..
J: and buy popcorn, coke, nacho chips before hand
P: popcorn sweet de hao ma? (he eat sweet de)
J: NO.
P: half half? (half sweet, half salty)
J: NO.
P: one-third sweet, two-third salty?
J: no salty popcorn, no watch.
P: have wat.. and more lor..
J: if i eat one sweet popcorn, i'll kill you..
P: ...
J: how?
P: ok lor. salty popcorn, coke, nacho chips lor...
J: more cheese arh.. the nacho chips...
P: ok..
J: we share share the nacho chips but the cheese is all mine..
P: ok lor.....
i always win!! haha!! or i should say he always let me win.. and it feels really happy to have someone treat you like a princess and he always does so, even thorough i was far-to-become his girlfriend.
he always nv fail to introduce his friends to me.. what does this means to me? he is never ashamed of being with me as a friend. it really make me happy becoz at the time i know him was the last time i ever had no confidence in myself.
he treat my friends with respect. i still remember once he came to look for me when i was studying at tp with ... i think is doreen. then the three of us went together for dinner and while waiting for food, he make small talk with my friend. (obviously he wasn't hitting on her, so dun be silly) to me, a friend who respect your friend is really a good friend.
on my 21st birthday, he came to help me, slog like some animal to help me. from preparing food, bbq pit till the final cooking, he is really my best helper the whole night (i would say). came and stay overnight with us the day before worrying that the gers are alone. even i was so rude to him when he came and told him so late might as well dun come, he still stay and help me and nv grumble about it and nv even mention to me how much he help in my so and so event.
one very impt thing that i need to mention him. In one event when ppl accused me of doing something i din, and the ppl ask him why he so "protective" of me, he say he believe that i din do that coz he knows i will not (T_T)....
he will always help me when i need him no matter big or small problem. i was in school and forgot my thumb drive, he was at home coz that time we were different class... and for those who know his house is nearer to school than mine. i called him and he was sleeping
J: ne~ wake up. i need help.
P: ??
J: i forgot my thumb-drive, go my house and get for me leh
P: orh.. OK
J: don't sleep liao la.. my mum will not know what is thumb drive so you go in my room, the thumb drive is plug to my laptop.
P: ok..
J: quick la.. then faster pass to me ASAP... erm.. 12NOON!!
P: orh..
in the above case, his lesson start about 3pm i think and it was 10:30am when i called him.. POOR THING~~ m(T_T)m
me and HIM
1. he is the one of the two guys friends who always know when i'm having PMS w/o fail.
2. my mum's favorite guy friend of mine.
3. we learn para para together from chongkai and became some center-of-attraction in Plaza Singapura.
4. he never fail to give me discount when i go to his baito shop and even his colleagues and friends recognise me and give me the same type of discount.
5. i always like to nag at him, and he will listen and explain. but when he nag at me, i will nag harder at him..
6. poly some ppl say he is like my slave but i nv think in this way. (even my mum scold me say i treat him like slave)
7. he is the one guy friend i have who shops with me and even help me to choose clothes that will compliment and flatter me becoz there is this new cute guy in school.. (haha)
8. he is the best customer service officer i ever met in my life.
9. he is the most filial and homely guy i ever know in my life.
10. once, i cried on his shoulder till his whole sleeve is wet.. i had a good laugh after that
words to him
i know you know what you want, but you are just too indecisive in your life. if found the girl, just snatch. don't care what ppl say, coz happiness is yours. go study like what you wanted. since IT is not yours, i will take away your share for you. go into business. that's what you want and what you will really excel.
friends for 6 years, from the time we ran after the last train(not our last train, but ck's) till now we haven seen each other since the last time i reported to you about a new bf and you gave me the omiyage from taiwan. gotta meet up soon before one day you forgotten about me and carry on with your life.
i thank you for being my (slave) friend. and that you never fail to trust me even when the world turn its back ard me. this is what i understand from you. even when everyone(e gers) said that i wasn't suppose to be believed, you stood by my side. i really appreciated.
thanks for being "liyan" in my poly life. but it turn out that you are not "liyan" but amazing another impt character in my life. someone who listens to who i like or dislike, love or hate. never told another person abt my secret, and even try to help create chances for me to be with the guy i like.. how can i ever find another guy friend like you again?
thanks mr lun-zi.. dunno if you get to read this post, but what is impt is my appreciation for you, and your endless friendship for me.
木曜日, 7月 03, 2008
Japanese Women
following my post about the woman who i saw at the bus-stop, i realised that apart from gorgeous guys, i'm attracted to look at gorgeous woman (maybe i wish to be like them).
There are alot in Japan that i really love. Love to have some parts of them, but not all. Maybe is not the real them, but the working them (in dorama, movie or magazine).
but they are so cool. and lovely.
The list below is in random order.. no particular meaning
1. 関めぐみ(Seki Megumi) in ライフ (LIFE)
Talking about this character, i would say is her kakuii-ness... the way she heck care etc. i was watching this show using a super lousy online method and the screen is so distorted. but she is just so pretty. i haven saw her in any other dorama or movie or magazine so i cannot judge much yet. waiting to see any other of her 作品。
P.S. born on the same day as KKG
2. 酒井彩名 (Sakai Ayana) from レイ （RAY) magazine
i have seen her 1st in エースをねらえ! (Ace wo nerae), a tennis dorama. her character midorikawa ranko is a tennis killer... i would say she can kill with a tennis ball and racket, and everyone who watch the show will argee with me. in the drama, the way she love her coach aka her step-brother is so erm.. no comments.. but i was so suprised to see ayana in ray magazine coz she is so cute!!! i thought of her as a cool character until i saw her blog. her lovely and cute character hide the fact that she is a owner of a wedding boutique with many branches in japan despite that she is the same age as me. i wish i was half as great as them, and not someone who stuck in my life. the announcement that she is marrying L'Arc-en-Ciel's Tetsu is a big surprise. tetsu is 16 years older than her!! but i guess it is too common a situation in japan. it is probably becoz of her that i read ray magazine
*** still more to go but i lazy to continue ********
There are alot in Japan that i really love. Love to have some parts of them, but not all. Maybe is not the real them, but the working them (in dorama, movie or magazine).
but they are so cool. and lovely.
The list below is in random order.. no particular meaning
1. 関めぐみ(Seki Megumi) in ライフ (LIFE)
Talking about this character, i would say is her kakuii-ness... the way she heck care etc. i was watching this show using a super lousy online method and the screen is so distorted. but she is just so pretty. i haven saw her in any other dorama or movie or magazine so i cannot judge much yet. waiting to see any other of her 作品。
P.S. born on the same day as KKG
2. 酒井彩名 (Sakai Ayana) from レイ （RAY) magazine
i have seen her 1st in エースをねらえ! (Ace wo nerae), a tennis dorama. her character midorikawa ranko is a tennis killer... i would say she can kill with a tennis ball and racket, and everyone who watch the show will argee with me. in the drama, the way she love her coach aka her step-brother is so erm.. no comments.. but i was so suprised to see ayana in ray magazine coz she is so cute!!! i thought of her as a cool character until i saw her blog. her lovely and cute character hide the fact that she is a owner of a wedding boutique with many branches in japan despite that she is the same age as me. i wish i was half as great as them, and not someone who stuck in my life. the announcement that she is marrying L'Arc-en-Ciel's Tetsu is a big surprise. tetsu is 16 years older than her!! but i guess it is too common a situation in japan. it is probably becoz of her that i read ray magazine
*** still more to go but i lazy to continue ********
lady
there is this lady who i always saw at the bus-stop whenever i'm late for work.
she is someone who i just can't take my eyes of her. to think that i'm a lady too.
we always take the same bus and sometime alight at the same bus stop(my bus-transfer, her destination)
seen her a total of 3 times. (i think)
i think i will nv get to see someone so pretty again.
everything abt her is gorgeous. how to say..... i think is her aura... yup.. aura... a kind of aura that i cannot resist and keep looking at her..
she is not the elegant type.. more of a korean woman kind of feeling, yet not the normal one. once i thought that she look like xi-zhen in "jin san shun" but on 2nd look, that's not true. she has the X-factor. i dunno what to say.
anyway, if you see her, you will know what i mean.
P.S. i still prefer seki megumi from [Life] than her.
she is someone who i just can't take my eyes of her. to think that i'm a lady too.
we always take the same bus and sometime alight at the same bus stop(my bus-transfer, her destination)
seen her a total of 3 times. (i think)
i think i will nv get to see someone so pretty again.
everything abt her is gorgeous. how to say..... i think is her aura... yup.. aura... a kind of aura that i cannot resist and keep looking at her..
she is not the elegant type.. more of a korean woman kind of feeling, yet not the normal one. once i thought that she look like xi-zhen in "jin san shun" but on 2nd look, that's not true. she has the X-factor. i dunno what to say.
anyway, if you see her, you will know what i mean.
P.S. i still prefer seki megumi from [Life] than her.
火曜日, 7月 01, 2008
BFF - Liyan
a long friendship. exactly 10 years in 2 Jan 2008.
but it is not the length that matter.. (i do have friends of 16 years, 19 years).
why BFF?
accepts the unreasonable me. everyone has a time that is unreasonable.
ppl who are angry with you at that time and forgets it later are friends.
ppl who angry with you at that time and terminate the friendship afterwards are gomi(thrash).
liyan does not falls in any of this category, but a special one. Different from patrick (my best friend no.2), the way she accepts it is amazing. stands in my point of view, understand how i feel, take my nonsense, and always listen to what i say. She never ask me to put myself in others shoes coz she understand that 我在气头上。
Sometime i wonder if we have a one-way telepathy. Coz she always know when i'm sad, stress, angry etc.. the changing eye doraemon is something that to remind me of the telepathy.
she never say "everyone is also ..... ", though we know that it is fact (like everyone is also stressed, everyone is also ....) and i say that to ppl often too.
She automatically knows when i need her, without needing me to tell her and will always come, even though she dunno if i welcome her (but i know i'll always welcome her)
She is truly happy for me when happy things happen to me. This i know. and i know that not much people are able to attain this.
She accepts my fickle minded since when we were young and listens to my love stories without saying "AGAIN"~~ For all the guys that she knows i like, she never comment anything good or bad about them.
She never say anything bad about any of my friends, classmate, family etc.
She never throw me any cold shoulder despite that i may get very engrossed in something such that i forget everyone's existence.
She always return my missed call (even it may be nothing impt)
me AND her
1. we fought. as per what i remember when we were young. shall no mention content. but as we are both civilized people, we fought with words and not action.
2. we belongs to a group name 城人杂志。 now nameless
3. our group have change members before. Only liyan, me, yan hao and peiyun are from the original 1st group. Chang Pin is the additional new born baby to our big family. We lost 2 guys before the new born baby.
4. in sec 1 and sec 2, i used to call her everyday.
5. we once went to a fire-station thinking that it is a museum. and on the same day, we lost our way and went to ROM.
6. we have different eating habits. i eat super-spicy, but she eat either mild or nothing. i like vinegar but she don't. i drink soya-milk, but she doesn't. YET we go out for meals often.
7. we know each other family members since secondary school.
8. we beat (i think) chang pin and pei yun in a game or arcade basketball.
9. our group last time favorite activity is bowling.
10. we (i think） never watch a movie together before.
11. she is the 1st person, to know of my current relationship.
12. She can recognized my family members when she see them elsewhere.
words to her
Don't feel too shocked to see this post and don't call me to scold or anything like that. Sometimes it is so amazing that after one big round we meet back together at NUS even after some separation in between. but it was probably the separation that make our friendship stronger. maybe separation is a strong word.
you are always the 1st person who i share my happiness becoz i know that you never fail to be happy for me. i'm really blessed to have you as my BFF and i really can imagine us talking about kids or house etc 10 or 20 years later.
thanks for sharing about the importance of investment and insurance despite that you dunno if i will reject it. you make me know the importance of making my money grow and secure my future. you are always there for discussion, be it a happy or sad issue, or money matters.
thanks liyan. we know we have completed 10 years friendship, and we are looking forward to the next 10 years. BYE BYE~~ (dunno how to end it)
but it is not the length that matter.. (i do have friends of 16 years, 19 years).
why BFF?
accepts the unreasonable me. everyone has a time that is unreasonable.
ppl who are angry with you at that time and forgets it later are friends.
ppl who angry with you at that time and terminate the friendship afterwards are gomi(thrash).
liyan does not falls in any of this category, but a special one. Different from patrick (my best friend no.2), the way she accepts it is amazing. stands in my point of view, understand how i feel, take my nonsense, and always listen to what i say. She never ask me to put myself in others shoes coz she understand that 我在气头上。
Sometime i wonder if we have a one-way telepathy. Coz she always know when i'm sad, stress, angry etc.. the changing eye doraemon is something that to remind me of the telepathy.
she never say "everyone is also ..... ", though we know that it is fact (like everyone is also stressed, everyone is also ....) and i say that to ppl often too.
She automatically knows when i need her, without needing me to tell her and will always come, even though she dunno if i welcome her (but i know i'll always welcome her)
She is truly happy for me when happy things happen to me. This i know. and i know that not much people are able to attain this.
She accepts my fickle minded since when we were young and listens to my love stories without saying "AGAIN"~~ For all the guys that she knows i like, she never comment anything good or bad about them.
She never say anything bad about any of my friends, classmate, family etc.
She never throw me any cold shoulder despite that i may get very engrossed in something such that i forget everyone's existence.
She always return my missed call (even it may be nothing impt)
me AND her
1. we fought. as per what i remember when we were young. shall no mention content. but as we are both civilized people, we fought with words and not action.
2. we belongs to a group name 城人杂志。 now nameless
3. our group have change members before. Only liyan, me, yan hao and peiyun are from the original 1st group. Chang Pin is the additional new born baby to our big family. We lost 2 guys before the new born baby.
4. in sec 1 and sec 2, i used to call her everyday.
5. we once went to a fire-station thinking that it is a museum. and on the same day, we lost our way and went to ROM.
6. we have different eating habits. i eat super-spicy, but she eat either mild or nothing. i like vinegar but she don't. i drink soya-milk, but she doesn't. YET we go out for meals often.
7. we know each other family members since secondary school.
8. we beat (i think) chang pin and pei yun in a game or arcade basketball.
9. our group last time favorite activity is bowling.
10. we (i think） never watch a movie together before.
11. she is the 1st person, to know of my current relationship.
12. She can recognized my family members when she see them elsewhere.
words to her
Don't feel too shocked to see this post and don't call me to scold or anything like that. Sometimes it is so amazing that after one big round we meet back together at NUS even after some separation in between. but it was probably the separation that make our friendship stronger. maybe separation is a strong word.
you are always the 1st person who i share my happiness becoz i know that you never fail to be happy for me. i'm really blessed to have you as my BFF and i really can imagine us talking about kids or house etc 10 or 20 years later.
thanks for sharing about the importance of investment and insurance despite that you dunno if i will reject it. you make me know the importance of making my money grow and secure my future. you are always there for discussion, be it a happy or sad issue, or money matters.
thanks liyan. we know we have completed 10 years friendship, and we are looking forward to the next 10 years. BYE BYE~~ (dunno how to end it)
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