bff - Patrick

no no.. not baby thia... is PATRICK CHUA BING LUN!!

this horrible guy.. how long have i not seen him???

but i was actually the one who 放他飞机 on the day that we suppose to meet.. sorry sorry.. coz must understand that i only have that evening to go and get my lovely camera from the PC show.... blah blah blah.. oops...

why BFF

can you believe that someone is so self-less? yes, self-less.. everything he do is for everyone else but rarely himself..

he is one who i can make alot of nuisance to him, bash him up, slap him, and we still declare each other friends forever.

when i'm unreasonable to him, it would be 10 or 100 times worse than i can be to anyone else. let's say watch movie, an example

P: watch movie?
J: i want watch the XXX (some show he not interested), coz no one wanna watch with me
P: OK. watch where?
J: erm.. dunno.. i lazy leh.. watch at J8 ba.
P: OK. what time slot?
J: abt noon ba.. you go book tickets before i come (obviously i stay nearer)
P: hao ba.. hao ba..
J: and buy popcorn, coke, nacho chips before hand
P: popcorn sweet de hao ma? (he eat sweet de)
J: NO.
P: half half? (half sweet, half salty)
J: NO.
P: one-third sweet, two-third salty?
J: no salty popcorn, no watch.
P: have wat.. and more lor..
J: if i eat one sweet popcorn, i'll kill you..
P: ...
J: how?
P: ok lor. salty popcorn, coke, nacho chips lor...
J: more cheese arh.. the nacho chips...
P: ok..
J: we share share the nacho chips but the cheese is all mine..
P: ok lor.....

i always win!! haha!! or i should say he always let me win.. and it feels really happy to have someone treat you like a princess and he always does so, even thorough i was far-to-become his girlfriend.

he always nv fail to introduce his friends to me.. what does this means to me? he is never ashamed of being with me as a friend. it really make me happy becoz at the time i know him was the last time i ever had no confidence in myself.

he treat my friends with respect. i still remember once he came to look for me when i was studying at tp with ... i think is doreen. then the three of us went together for dinner and while waiting for food, he make small talk with my friend. (obviously he wasn't hitting on her, so dun be silly) to me, a friend who respect your friend is really a good friend.

on my 21st birthday, he came to help me, slog like some animal to help me. from preparing food, bbq pit till the final cooking, he is really my best helper the whole night (i would say). came and stay overnight with us the day before worrying that the gers are alone. even i was so rude to him when he came and told him so late might as well dun come, he still stay and help me and nv grumble about it and nv even mention to me how much he help in my so and so event.

one very impt thing that i need to mention him. In one event when ppl accused me of doing something i din, and the ppl ask him why he so "protective" of me, he say he believe that i din do that coz he knows i will not (T_T)....

he will always help me when i need him no matter big or small problem. i was in school and forgot my thumb drive, he was at home coz that time we were different class... and for those who know his house is nearer to school than mine. i called him and he was sleeping

J: ne~ wake up. i need help.
P: ??
J: i forgot my thumb-drive, go my house and get for me leh
P: orh.. OK
J: don't sleep liao la.. my mum will not know what is thumb drive so you go in my room, the thumb drive is plug to my laptop.
P: ok..
J: quick la.. then faster pass to me ASAP... erm.. 12NOON!!
P: orh..

in the above case, his lesson start about 3pm i think and it was 10:30am when i called him.. POOR THING~~ m(T_T)m

me and HIM

1. he is the one of the two guys friends who always know when i'm having PMS w/o fail.
2. my mum's favorite guy friend of mine.
3. we learn para para together from chongkai and became some center-of-attraction in Plaza Singapura.
4. he never fail to give me discount when i go to his baito shop and even his colleagues and friends recognise me and give me the same type of discount.
5. i always like to nag at him, and he will listen and explain. but when he nag at me, i will nag harder at him..
6. poly some ppl say he is like my slave but i nv think in this way. (even my mum scold me say i treat him like slave)
7. he is the one guy friend i have who shops with me and even help me to choose clothes that will compliment and flatter me becoz there is this new cute guy in school.. (haha)
8. he is the best customer service officer i ever met in my life.
9. he is the most filial and homely guy i ever know in my life.
10. once, i cried on his shoulder till his whole sleeve is wet.. i had a good laugh after that

words to him

i know you know what you want, but you are just too indecisive in your life. if found the girl, just snatch. don't care what ppl say, coz happiness is yours. go study like what you wanted. since IT is not yours, i will take away your share for you. go into business. that's what you want and what you will really excel.

friends for 6 years, from the time we ran after the last train(not our last train, but ck's) till now we haven seen each other since the last time i reported to you about a new bf and you gave me the omiyage from taiwan. gotta meet up soon before one day you forgotten about me and carry on with your life.

i thank you for being my (slave) friend. and that you never fail to trust me even when the world turn its back ard me. this is what i understand from you. even when everyone(e gers) said that i wasn't suppose to be believed, you stood by my side. i really appreciated.

thanks for being "liyan" in my poly life. but it turn out that you are not "liyan" but amazing another impt character in my life. someone who listens to who i like or dislike, love or hate. never told another person abt my secret, and even try to help create chances for me to be with the guy i like.. how can i ever find another guy friend like you again?

thanks mr lun-zi.. dunno if you get to read this post, but what is impt is my appreciation for you, and your endless friendship for me.