Mental Betrayal

I actually wanted to write my friend's story here. But i gave up after a while. i find that it is really hard to describe her story in words, coz i have no writing ability to display her sadness and betrayal.

In general, let me write some thoughts in summary.

All the while, i felt that adultery is a physical thing. But now i realise that, mental betrayal can be so much hurting to another person. He may still seems to be a doting husband and father to her and their children, but in fact he did not realise the hurt the wife is getting. (And she is refusing to tell him that she is aware)

The Woman, young, pretty and single. Why would you choose a married man?
Do you not have friends to confide in?
Do you not have friends to share your happiness?
Do you not have friends to listen to your sorrows?
Why do you need a married man to comfort you?

I have many close guy friends who are married. But i know how to draw the line.

1. Dinner are always in groups.
2. Never ask them for personal favors that are of nothing serious.
3. Never treat guys who are married as butlers (Yes, i do treat some of my guys friends as butlers, but not for the married one)
4. Never spend a dollar from a married man.
5. Never invade into his family time
6. Always remember that he is not only your friend, but also a husband of another woman. Your actions may hurt the other woman.

I have no idea why she sticks to him like a glue.
Does she loves him or does she just want some fun?
Is she lonely and just wan some company?
Woman, I tried to think of reasons for you, but i fail.

Man, for goodness sake. No one say you cannot have friends after marriage. But don't you ever think that this is not considered as cheating. You try your mental betrayal, your wife will do something greater.

Signs of mental betrayal.
1. Using mobile or chatting device to keep in contact with one particular person at all time.
2. Physically with you but brain/heart forever elsewhere
3. Holding on to the mobile, chatting device 24/7 (sleep, eat, shit, bathe)
4. Tend to smile out of no reason while staring at some technology device (iPhone, PC)
5. Very secretive when msging that one particular person.
6. (For iPhone users only) Disable Push Notification, yet constant checking the phone.